Pre-Regret: The Key to Overcoming Guilt After Mastur*****

 Regret after masturbation is a feeling that many people experience, and it often stems from a deeper inner conflict. The primary reason for this regret is that after the act, we are confronted with the true version of ourselves—our real avatar and character. Deep down, we might not want to engage in such behavior, yet we give in to negative thoughts and commit what we perceive as a sin, regardless of the nature of that sin.

This feeling of regret is known as "post-regret." It exists to remind us that our actions were not aligned with our true desires or values. If we could recognize this regret before committing the act, we could potentially avoid the wrongdoing altogether. This concept of "pre-regret" is about anticipating the regret we will feel after an action and using that anticipation as a deterrent.

Masturbation, while not universally considered a sin, can still lead to feelings of regret due to its potential negative side effects. If we care for ourselves and understand the consequences, we might begin to embrace pre-regret as a powerful tool to avoid such behaviors. By converting post-regret into pre-regret, we arm ourselves with the foresight to avoid actions that are harmful not just to ourselves, but to society as well.

Think of it this way: before committing any harmful act—whether it be masturbation, hurting someone, committing fraud, or cheating—pause and imagine the regret you will feel afterward. This moment of reflection can be a powerful motivator to change your course of action. By embracing pre-regret, we can prevent ourselves from falling into a cycle of sin and bad habits.

In essence, pre-regret is like a protective shield. It is a conscious effort to prevent wrongdoing before it happens. Remember, pre-regret is 100 times better than post-regret. By internalizing this mindset, you open the door to personal growth and a better version of yourself.